My stepdaughter turnned 18 last week. All she does when home is statmy in her room on the phone talking to her friend or older sister all hours of day or sleeping. She shits and showers and goes to grandma's every week when bored to see her older sister and only acknowledges her dad for food or a ride or ro go to family functions. She is incredible slob n hasn't learned to drive or will get a job and says she's finished with continuation school in 2 weeks.  She treats me like im not even here and unappreciated or includes me in any conversation etc. Unless she wants somthing.