I have been on the site for about a few months now. It has been my saving grace.
My husband has 2 daughters 22y and 14y, the eldest does not live with us thank god! She is manipulative – bi-polar, border-line, had a baby a year ago, does not work etc. SD14y lives with us full-time and sees her BM EOW.
Earlier this week our housekeeper pointed out to me that she had on occasion found soiled panties with pads in it in SD’s cupboard. She asked me to please have a look at the state of SD’s room and cupboard as the smell emanating from it was disgusting.