Ok, I've been married almost 2 years. My husband's 4 year old daughter recently moved in with us. She has been here about 6 months. My husband and his ex states that it's temporary. I'm resentful because neither of them decided to have a conversation with me before making this decision. Her mother initially went to the hospital for heart palpitations, which turned into anxiety which subsequently turned in a cry for help. She texted my husband 2 weeks prior to being admitted into the hospital and asked him to take care of the child for a while until she "got herself together".