Hi everyone! I am new here and I am hoping some of you have experienced some of the same things I do. No matter what it is nice to have a place to vent. I am marrying a man, J, next July and he has a 3 and a half year old daughter who he gets every week on his 2 days off. I knew he had a kid when I met him and since I am a kindergarten teacher I didn't mind. Well, I didn't know it was going to end up being so much drama. First of all the "baby mama" is very young and lives off his the child support he pays her. The child doesn't go to daycare or socialize with any other children.