I have two stepdaughters whi I have always spoiled rotten at xmas. In April they decided they hated me and said they have never needed a thing from me so why start now...my dilemma is I do not want to buy them anything for xmas...is it wrong? I did pic up a few things from their father and will only sign his name. I haven't received an apology from either one in 8 months so I only want to abide by their wishes....very torn.