I'm at a loss. My blended relationship goes from problem to problem. I have brought three children to the relationship the two oldest go to their dad half the week. My youngest is with me all the time. My husband had brought two children to the relationship who are with us full time. My husbands wife committed suicide when they split. When I met my husband he wanted play therapy for his son through a friend I knew a contact and we met became friends and I helped him and his kids get through the grief.