First of all let me say HAPPY MOTHERS DAY to all of you step moms. I think there should be a step mother day! In my experence my job as a SM is so much harder than my job as a BM. I have twin 9yr old girls and their bio dad hasnt been involved or even seen them in yrs! Its almost a blessing cuz i have no idea how me and my DH would be able to deal w/ a psyco BM & BD at the same time. Then i have a sd 9 & ss 12 we have full custody of them but any chance bm has a to start drama she does. She is taking us back to court AGAIN to try & get more time w/ the kids.