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15 ways to be happy. Sounds simple but it works.

Karma_'s picture

1. Live in the present. Don't think about how great things will be in the future or dwell on what happened in the past.

2. Connect with others. Spend time with those you love rather than being alone or with people you don't much like.

3. Do the things you love. Figure out the four or five things you love doing most and make those the foundation of your day.

4. Focus on the positive. Whether you're happy or not depends largely on which aspects you focus on.

5. Do work you love. Make it a priority to try to find work you're passionate about.

6. Help others. Is there any better feeling than helping a fellow human being?

7. Find time for peace. With the hectic pace of life, it's important to make time for solitude and quiet.

8. Notice the small things, instead of waiting for the big things to happen - marriage, kids, house, car.

9. Develop compassion.

10. Be grateful. Learning to be grateful for what's in our lives goes a long way towards happiness.

11. Simplify your life. Create time for your happiness and thereby reduce stress.

12. Slow down. Learn to eat more slowly, drive more slowly, walk more slowly.

13. Learn to accept things as they are rather than try to make everything and everyone conform to an impossible ideal.

14. Spend time in nature.

15. Exercise.

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Wicked2Three's picture

I T A!
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"All power is from within therefore under our control." - Robert Collier

Oh Canada's picture

thanks for centering us. this is a very good reminder not to sweat the small stuff.

(easy for me to say - things have actually been pretty good lately)

SerendipitySM's picture

Thanks Karma - this was a much needed injection of positivity today. So many of the women on this site are having a difficult time right now and I hope that reading this list helps give them hope - it certainly did for me.

Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin

Most Evil's picture

It sounds so simple, yet I skip a lot of these - thanks for reminding us, it doesn't have to be so hard!

"A lie told often enough becomes the truth." - Vladimir Lenin

bellacita's picture

i think we all needed that today!

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

overmyhead's picture

Positive words.........just reading them makes me feel better.......

KittyKat's picture

Thanks, KQ..

By allowing others DRAMAS to overtake MY LIFE of late, I have
forgotten how to focus.

Truly KARMA that I(and others, apparently) are reading this today!!