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Anyone have issues arranging bedrooms for their Skids?

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Submitted by Justkeepswimming4 on Wed, 07/08/2020 - 6:37pm

My spouse and I moved into a nice house when we met so we had room for the skids. Boys had a room and the girls had a room. I have one child and my spouse has three. 
 

Our lease is up on the house and we need to move closer to town after realizing the lack of childcare for my son in our current area. We get a small two bedroom because the corona hit and unemployment isn't considered income.... so we had to take what we would get. 
 

Another Mother’s Day with SO kids

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Submitted by Justkeepswimming4 on Sat, 05/09/2020 - 3:34pm

I am feeling so many emotions right now. Dad and angry mostly. I've never had a Mother's Day where I could pamper myself. I have to have my BS court ordered on Mother's Day which is fine. I try to make that a special day between us but the dynamics between my ex and I and my so. Usually to my belief make him a little s***to me due to all of the brainwashing and s****talking about me from his father. Oh well I try my best to yeah my son who I have full time except the weekends how great it is to bond with mom.....

Awfully Quiet

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Submitted by Justkeepswimming4 on Wed, 03/18/2020 - 9:45am

Speaking about my SD10 here. I've been with my SO for a year and a half and we've been through and have done a lot of exciting things together with and without the children. I can't help but notice lately my SD 10 is super quiet. She distances herself from the other SKids and has been really snotty lately. 

When everything just grosses you out!

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Submitted by Justkeepswimming4 on Fri, 02/28/2020 - 8:19pm

Alright guys! I've been trying to be open about having step kids and such and not think about the differences. But does anyone else look at their step kids as they are picking their nose, sucking their feet?, biting their toe nails, or sucking on their fingers and smelling everything just odd? Does anyone else feel grossed out by their step kids and want to sanitize the whole couch and how when they leave? Honestly my step kids lay and fart all over our couch. They sit on the sides and pillows.

Torn between two

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Submitted by Justkeepswimming4 on Mon, 02/17/2020 - 4:44pm

After spending a couple of months reading the blogs on the site I decided to join!*biggrin* I was reluctant at first because I don't believe in speaking to others about my family life but I've got to vent somewhere some how about my blending family life! So here goes! 
 

My SO and I have been together for almost two years now. I have one BS 8yr. My SO has three. So my satellite children are SD 10yrs, SD 8yrs, and SS 6yrs.