Well after DH's email to SD14 it just goes on and on. She replied to her dad that she would do what she wants to and that BS15 shouldn't call her names. Of course, I am not allowed to see her reply, because I am sure DH thinks it will upset me further. Well my BS tells me on Friday that she is up to the same crap again. She actually got up half way through the bus ride and sat in the seat next to him. Making a clear point of bringing her friend with and interjecting into their conversation. She is trying to make a point to BS15 and DH that she is still a factor in their lives whether or not she lives here. DH and I had a talk on Saturday and he stated that he sent an email to BM to tell her to handle it or it was going to progress. He even cut and paste SD14's email remarks into the email to BM so that he could reinforce what he was saying. He wanted it made clearly that he tried to resolve it with SD and since she clearly was going to do what she wanted despite DH's wishes.

BS15 made it clear that he continued to ignore her despite her attempts to get in the conversation. I spoke with him and affirmed that he was to try and ignore her and eventually she would get the hint. Told him to tell his friends whatever he liked about what was going on with her. But, he was not to call her names. I did tell him that if something does progress with this and the school gets involved that DH promised he would back him up with the school. Trust me, then BM and I are going to have a conversation about her daughter...I warned DH this. We never communicate and I don't want to but, what else can you do when it is your bio-child versus your Skid? How long do I continue to let DH handle it? If it keeps happening, I feel like I am supposed to do something and please do not tell me to drive him to school. It is too inconvenient for me to do every day both ways. Why should I be inconvenienced?

I know my son is mature and responsible, but seriously how long is he supposed to deal with her crap? She can't approach DH or I because of her actions, so she has to beat up her brother and now she has to make trouble for her step brother?

This girl really needs some type of punishment, but I am sure it will be nothing much. BM only takes away her cell phone for a day if she does something. Only reason I know that is she puts it on Facebook that she is lost without her cell phone. She needs real punishment, but it will never happen as BM doesn't know how to parent. At least DH gets it, unfortunately for all of us it was too late.

She doesn't even want to live here, so why keep on antagonizing BS15 and SS12?