This email comes this morning from my DH. SD14 Facebook'd him with this.

do you know why BS15 called my friend & i bitches? i've avioided him all this time & he says right in our face on the bus that were bitches for no reason

I called BS to clarify before he went into class what happened. He explained that she had been trying to be friends with all of his friends and he had ignored it for so long. He told his friend to stop talking to the bitch. Personally - I have no problem with this. She created this mess. You have to read the blogs to fully understand.

Not to mention, the lovely grammar structure and the fact that DH has tried to have countless conversations with her via Facebook, since she won't call him or email him. This is what she finally sends? All these months and maybe 5 one sentence response.

How stupid, does she really think that my son wasn't eventually going to lose it on her. She is lucky as hell that is all he did. I am over here, clapping him finally standing up to this brat. She is so desperate to be friends with everyone, she forgets that he is older and has friends of his own. No 15 year old boy is going to want his 14 year old sister being friends with his friends. Even in a "normal" household. Let alone one where she is suing us. Yes - SD14 actually brought this CO modification up with BM's help. She has not spoken to anyone in this house for 8 months and she is surprised by my BS finally saying something....

I am sure my husband will make an excuse for him, but honestly I want to see his reply to her. He needs to say something like, you need to stay away from BS and his friends. He is very angry with you. You created this reality and I am sorry but there is fall out from that...I doubt he will, he is so trying to have a relationship with her.

I know we are not supposed to feel such animosity for these SK's. But, I do for this one. She has created all of this and there has been no ramifications for her. Nothing, she goes on with the life she wanted. She is never home, she is on facebook telling everyone her very extensive social calendar. Nothing happens to her. In the meantime, we are all left here, trying to be careful with SS12 for fear he gets frustrated and wants BM full time too. Protecting him from the BM is continual. He is so neglected by her, it is all about SD14.

Sorry frustrated today. But, I know that DH and I are going to fight about this. I will not punish my kid for this one. He won't say anything to SD that she needs to learn that their is fall out for her actions. This is not going to just go away. I am afraid that with them on the same bus this is going to get worse.