:? This is my first blog entry ever, not even really sure what a blog is I guess some sort of computer journal. So I found this website googling disrespectful adult stepchildren. Things have to be pretty bad if you are googling that topic. I have been very unhappy over the last few years because I have allowed my adult stepson and his wife to have an impact on my life. I really love their daughter she is a great little kid, and her and I get along great. This all started I think when she was about 8 mos old. I remember that because we had traveled to Tucson to spend xmas with the kids,skids,and baby. We were excited our first xmas with a grandchild. We bought gifts, wrapped them in hello kitty wrap and couldn't wait to see her open them. Well my stepsons wife got into an altercation with my son and she was angry at him and therefore angry at me and guess who didn't come for xmas, her and the grandbaby. My stepson showed up solo with some lame excuse of how sick she is and I was so upset. The next day she decided she would let us see her for a little while. They came over opened her presents and I had a talk with the wife. I played nice told her we loved her and all that crap and all was well. I knew then exactly the kind of person she was and that this was just the beginning of a long history of withholding the baby from us whenever she gets her ass in the air about anything. Well several incidences later I have had all of her and my stepsons BS that I care to deal with. It is a thin line between love and hate and they have crossed it with me. I cant even stand to be in the same room with them anymore. It is awkward and forced. I am not really the kind of person who can dislike you and smile in your face like it is all good. If I dislike you I don't associate with you period. I tried harder than I normally would with them because they are my husbands family and I do love that grandbaby but it is like a switch in my head has been turned off and I no longer have any regard for them. That is how I feel about the situation today. My stepsons wife who I will never call my daughter in law again, she doesn't deserve the title sent me a text a couple days ago asking if I wanted to meet with her to "really talk" I declined. My husband says he is going to talk to his son and not sugarcoat any of his feelings and let him know how this has hurt not only us but the whole family and how he needs to man up and fix this shit storm that he created. I feel until that conversation happens there is no reason to talk to either of them because odds are he is such a little bitch that his dad being real with him and telling him what a POS he is being he will not have anything to do with us anymore period. I doubt it though I could never be that lucky. His narcissistic wife wont go for that cause god forbid any of the other grandkids get something and her daughter not. IDK but if my husband starts giving me shit for disengaging we are gonna have a problem. I don't deserve this shit and I wont stand for it, since he wont stand up for me I am gonna have to do it myself.