Been watching a movie and a sex scene or intense romance scene in a movie come up and you're watching it with your SO and it makes you uncomfortable to watch because the lack of intimacy going on in your relationship? I wonder if that means the marriage is over.... 

Is it me, or are the Facebook groups and pages that support SMs really judgemental??? Like they act like you're crazy or they gas light you on your situation? I've experienced that several times and it's actually made me antisocial and not want to ask questions. To me, it's so crazy because as a SM, we deal with some super weird and crazy situations, if anybody should understand it should be another SM. I'm wondering if we're programmed to respond the way others respond to us. Without compassion.

I think I’m starting to notice some possible competition from teen SD and or possible mini wife thing going on. Little signs here and there have popped up before, but I just attributed it to issues with the BM. Now I’m starting to notice more because she’s at home with us more. Maybe she is just being overly helpful. Like with bio baby who is 1, sd will give drinks or food that haven't been approved yet (a concern because of unknown allergies). Today went to the doc SD sat right next to DH, and there were no other chairs close with the baby.