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convinced im a martyr

JennyBunnyjj's picture

Im convinced that any other woman would have left DH by now or thrown SS down a well. I must be a good one with alot of persevance. It's certainly not easy. Ive gotten myself into something deeper than I can dig myself out of. I told DH to his face and SS...any other woman would be GONE by now

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imjustthemaid's picture

I hear ya! DH was engaged to a girl years before he met me. She said its me or her (meaning SD who was only 5 at the time) The girl hightailed it outta there! Boy was she right. I love DH and he is really a wonderful husband so I never thought of leaving.

DH will try to tell me that SD was cute when she was little. Then I have to remind him that a girl left him because of her and she was only 5. Couldn't have been that cute!!! I think she was evil back then too!!

JennyBunnyjj's picture

SS was away for an unusually long visit with BM during the beginning of DH and I's relationship so I had to go off what he said. I was made to believe he was an angel pretty much. I really believe had SS been around during those 6 mos, I would have broken up with DH. We tried to figure out why our relationship was so great back then...we both came to the conclusion that it was because SS was thousands of miles away :O

bearcub25's picture

My SO actually said those words to me 2 years ago. He had just taken into MY home his 3 brats. One day he thanked me b/c any other 'SANE'woman would've told him to hit the road 2 weeks into our little nightmare.

the phoenix's picture

I know EXACTLY how you feel. Hang in there. They'll be 18 and out of the house someday, right?
--right?