A little backstory:  Married 5 years to DH.  When we first got serious about marriage, I expressed to him I didn't want his kids living with us, at that time they were SD17 and SD22.  He would not hear of it, and INSISTED his kids were coming.  I stayed. This is a converstion I tried to have last night that makes no sense to me.  I want answers.  I want an apology.  The resentment is effecting my sex life.  I love him so much.  But sometimes I want to leave.