:jawdrop: DH has been trying to get this contempt case heard for almost a year now. It was filed in April of 2019 - Of course now it is March. Court date is 10 March. We seriously have our fingers crossed that it will go forward this time. We need the case to be heard this time. BM is not going to even attempt to stop the foolishness and alienation unless it goes forward. (We hope she will stop all the craziness!!!!!!! But probably not!)

Just a quick recap and update for folks. DH has had serious issues with BM from the jump. She refused to allow DH access to SD, filed a bogus abuse case against us, false protective order against DH, and has continually refused to allow DH his court ordered visitation and information in reference to school, doctors, medical and extra-curricular activities. Thanks to DH keep everything she sends (text, emails, letters, notes, etc...) He has been able to counter every lie and attempt at keeping him and his family out of SD's life. If you need to know specifics, please read back in my blogs. BM is in dire need of some type of personal counseling to help her deal with whatever issues are plaguing her.

She has denied DH visitation with SD on 9 separate visits now. The most recent were the visits in January for the 1st and 3rd weekends. She refused to let him know why - just had SD tell him that her mother was not going to bring her. She changed insurance information and submitted bogus dental receipts - which her "friend" typed up and faxed. However when he checked the account number - it does not match SD's account.

BM had gotten so bad that the judge added a clause to attempt and get her to stop alienating DH from SD's life and share information as well. She even had to sign a memorandum of agreement that she understood she was to stop alienating DH, stop getting 3rd parties to alienate DH, and she was to share information, facilitate a positive relationship and allow DH to speak to SD daily. This was signed in September of 2009. She continues to do all of the above and worse.

So a contempt case was filed against her. The case has been continued in June, July, August, Sept, November, January, and February. Now here we go in March. She has had excuse after excuse, January the continuance was for weather, and February the continuance was for illness. Hopefully this judge will hear the case next week and set out some serious consequences for BM. First she claimed dance blocked the visits - lie, then illnesses blocked the visits - lie, now we are waiting to see what the excuse is now.

In the meanwhile, she has filed 3 or 4 (hard to keep up with) child support cases in the time since the original motion was filed. All were dismissed. The latest DH just received last week - Monday. States DH has been un-employed since 2004, just now become re-employed and owes significant back support. Which is bogus.... DH has been employed and pays his support on time each and every month. He has his records and receipts dating back to 2003. I am so surprised that Child Support Enforcement let her file the case since he pays (voluntarily) through their system - he is not on wage withholding.

However, this is going to the contempt case as well. Shows retaliation against him for filing the contempt case. She should have waited until the hearing in March.... that way it would have been received after the case on 10 March. I guess she was so mad that the judge told her attorney the medical reasons were lies and were not good enough that she better come back with a better reason for "stealing visits" that she filed the case but now will have that used in this case against her as well.

All i can do is pray that the judge finally hear the case in totality and pass judgment with serious consequences. A father who is trying his best to remain active in his daughter's life and trying to have a positive relationship with his daughter is hanging in the balance. Seems like some times the old saying Good guys finish last seems to keep on coming up in this case. I am praying some changes get made that benefit DH and SD so they can enjoy their relationship without the severe interference from BM. This foolishness has gone on for almost 8 years and it is high time it stops. Every other weekend - she pulls something, attempts at a reason to keep SD, comes up with bogus crap against DH, and tells SD all types of lies and confusing things that are affecting SD and DH. It is just sad.