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Submitted by imagr8tma on Mon, 05/17/2010 - 1:50pm

After BM denying DH to see his daughter for over a month now - Had not seen SD since 11 April.......BM decides to text DH to let him know she will driving to the court ordered meeting location by 6 on Friday - of course she told him this at 4 but ok at least he got time with his daughter.

DH gets there and gets SD - She then shows him a ring worm on SD and mentions that her (BM's) uncle is dying and how DH should call him. DH just nodded and got in his car and left. He didn't want to make small talk with her due to all of the lies and excuses he has been getting on email and text in reference to why she has now taken 7 of his court ordered visitations.

So in the car - SD tells DH (as her mother instructed her too....) that he has to put the cream on the ringworm she got from our spring break cruise and not to forget to bath her - since we must have forgotten while she was on our trip. LOL! Funny - Our spring break trip was 2 - 11 April - and SD has been with BM until 14 May. Besides that if she did get a ringworm during our trip - why did you wait until 11 May to fill the prescription for the cream - just before she came with DH for visitation. It has been 30 days since SD was with us - and you claim she got the ring worm from us - get real - i hope she says that in court...... i really do! But anyways.....

After DH got home he checked SD's travel bag - and finds $256.00 of "medical expense receipts" for my SD for which DH would owe 55% of the cost to BM. This would come out to $140.00. So I encourage DH to check with the insurance folks to make sure all of the receipts belong to SD. (Last time they did not - and he ended up only owing $19 out of the $75 she tried to get.)

Well to our dismay Sad BM was lying again. SD's medications came to only 180.00 of the $256.00 she claimed... for which DH owes $99.00. The other receipts did not belong to SD. I am so glad he has joint custody and is able to receive this information....... I just don't get the crap from her. I mean really - that is so damn easy to check into.... and since she lies so much why would he not check behind her.

Needless to say - that will stuff will be going to the lawyer as well -BM has not been served the contempt charges paperwork for interfering with visitation since last October, not provided medical insurance card, interfering with his court ordered daily telephone calls, not providing school, doctor, activity information, and not sending the correct medications either.

I am hoping once that paperwork gets to her - she will straighten up! I mean really come on - its time to just follow the court order and stop the foolishess!

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Submitted by Amazed on Mon, 05/17/2010 - 2:01pm

omg i hate this woman for you! What a heinous b*tch!!! I am absolutely stunned she would try to swindle the system this way. i'm so sorry for you guys having to deal with a person like this. Please update and let everyone know what she does when she gets the paperwork. I bet she sh*ts a brick Wink

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Submitted by PoisonApples on Mon, 05/17/2010 - 2:02pm

Good luck. We have court for breach of an access order on Wednesday ourselves so I'm sure we're feeling some of the same things right now.

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Submitted by imagr8tma on Mon, 05/17/2010 - 2:17pm

thanks ladies......

Stepperg - DH has only paid what he really owes.... However, it will be going to court for our contempt charges case. I am very interested in seeing what lie or excuse BM tells the judge on this as well.

BBB and Poison - We can not wait to see what happens when she does finally get served. I hope it happens in the next week or two.... court is mid june.

It just never ceases to amaze me the lies and crap she tells...... however i seriously doubt she will that to the judge. I am sooooo interested in seeing what her excuses will be.

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 05/17/2010 - 2:21pm

Good job on your DH to check this out and call BM on it! Our BM tried sending a handwritten list of her expenses, then divided it in half. Some of them were things she hadn't even paid yet; she was billing us for future anticipated expenses. Um, OK! There was only one receipt, for $30, and we paid our half ($15). I bet she was PISSED when she saw the check for $15 and she was asking us for $250! Ha ha.

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Submitted by LotusFlower on Mon, 05/17/2010 - 2:24pm

I bet once she is in front of a Judge...she will cry like the poor "victim" she will try to project to the Court....lets hope the Judge sees right thru her bs like mine did....it was a day I replay in my mind every so often when I need something to pick up my spirits...LOL...

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Submitted by imagr8tma on Tue, 05/18/2010 - 7:47am

Lotus - I agree with you. .. . .. However, I don't think the judge will believe her for one second. They went to court in Sept 09 and the judge wrote in the court order for BM to stop alienating and this type stuff and gave DH more time with his daugther.

BM turned around in Oct 2009 and started alienating again. She kept SD stating she was too ill to travel - and then posted pictures of SD at a Halloween Party outdoors. AND we have the pictures (they are going to court) along with the doctor's note she got stating SD was to stay indoors for 48 hours with a high fever and be hydrated. Then we have the other visits where she lied via email and text - where DH drove and she was not there (verified by receipts). She does not like to talk to DH on the telephone so she texts and emails everything. DH just keeps them along with the other documentation just for court.

Stepperg - I think she gives DH bogus receipts out of pure hatred for him.... and jealousy that he is married and has a two income household. She hates when he shows up for SD - and has stopped sharing the information - DH has to call around to get information from the school, doctor, dance coach, etc...... and even then she told them she has sole custody - so he has to fax court orders and fight for everything he gets in reference to SD.

I believe BM has a heart full of envy, hatred, jealousy and will stop at nothing to have her way. So has no respect for the judge, the court order, dh's relationship with his daughter or anything. She just wants her way..... DH did not marry her - so he feels he should not be involved in SDs life - only pay his child support and move on.

I just hope and pray the judge sees through her crap and puts some real consequences in place this time. If not, we will have no choice but to move to North Carolina - so DH can be there every day and have the custody arrangement switched to at least 50/50..... which we know she will hate......