bf is separated and visiting daughter who lives in home country(philippines) for a month... first demand... he goes out(movies,malls) with kid and ex-wife to show daughter there's still essence of being a family. meaning... he's trying to beat what ex-wife's bf is doing and feels that he's being replaced as a father. second demand, we should lessen our calling and texting one another coz he said its his vacation(i live in the philippines too, i just visit him in the US very often) and he needs time(space) for himself to do his own stuff. I never demanded for him to see me everyday.