I have been in this relationship for five years and these problems are not new by any means but are getting worse...my bf has two sons that live with us every other week - yes a week! this is because thier mother likes to party and my bf thought it was a better fit. so we have them half the time, pay full support, but clothes for here (well i do) and of course they end up at her house b/c bf has no balls (last month he let them take all their summer clothes to flordia with the grandparents, guess whos house the clothes are at now!