update on BMs proposal for parenting time
SD now "cries" everytime she has to go to daddies
It is "mean that SO WANTS to take her away from her mother'
He will never get 50/50 unless SHE agrees to it.
more harrassing emails.
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...even though we're not
...even though we're not going for 50/50 right now, SHES taking HIM to court, we just want the schedule to stay the same until she is in school full time.
This is exactly it. Let her
This is exactly it. Let her go on and on and on. It doesn't get much better than her documenting her crazy in emails!
Unless she's emailing about something relating to SD's care or welfare, ignore her.
SO is ignoring her, should we
SO is ignoring her, should we bring all these emails even though they are irrelevant to the "trial"
as in she filed a motion to change parenting time because she is objecting to the result of the mediation.
In her motion, she says the reasoning behind wanting to change the time is because "SO is always late for pu/do" which is FALSE. He is now getting time stamped reciepts from the exchange spot (arbys) to prove otherwise.
But I think she's going to NOT get her way when this goes in front of the judge, but what exactly should we bring with us?
Maybe he should reply in a
Maybe he should reply in a very business-like way to her .. something like:
"Dear BM,
I understand that you are petitioning the court for a change in custody and have emailed several offers to me. I am willing to entertain any reasonable offer for a change in the custody schedule, but I am not willing to accept less than the current amount of scheduled visitation time I currently have.
Please do not email me on this topic any further unless you have a serious offer.
Thank you,
SO"
If she continues to email and harrass him, take ALL of it to court. It shows the judge he was willing to work it out and change the schedule, but she clearly refused.
He already sent her an email
He already sent her an email with what he was willing to compromise on in SDs best interest, he told her they should consider changing the exchange time since right now it is UP TO HER so it's really not his fault if she is "late for work", which he is never late so that is neither here nor there.
He already did the "professional" email thing and we get a bunch of harrassing emails that HAVE NOTHING to do with what he said back which he is ignoring.
I just don't want the judge to think we are being petty like "well SHE said these things"
I feel like we should just stick to what she put in her motion and explain why she is wrong. and not try to cram all the other shitty things she's done in there since they only have 15 minutes each to argue their case.
It is a De Novo hearing if that makes any difference.