I am chilling in the living room and SD asks when we are "getting" breakfast. I tell her we have yogurt, apples, oatmeal with brown sugar, toaster strudel, and boxed mac n cheese with bacon- this was after 11am. I already ate leftover chili from my sister's dinner last night. Oh, she also brought home 3 sopapillas from dinner.

DH and I had an explosive arguement this morning and part of it was in front of SD because he can't have a conversation when he is angry and starts to raise his voice because he is irritated.  I went with them to drop SD off so I could get my truck that he didn't bring home last night. 

I had dinner at my girlfriend's house because she and her husband just separated and plan to divorce. They were high school sweethearts so this is devastating after over 12 years. She wanted it to work and he didn't.

Anyway, I bought stuff for DH to make spaghetti and asked SD to help him before I left. Crickets. I also told DH to teach SD how to make a basic meal because of the "breakfast" incident almost 2 weeks ago. Crickets. He wants to complain about how lazy SD is but makes no effort to remedy the situation, but I digress.

As some of you may remember, this is a touchy subject with me. After BM very blatantly and RUDELY made it clear to me (not DH) that the cell phone we provided for SD was to never go near her house basically, has had SD call to request it again.

Yes, we were out playing pool with BIL and SIL last night, and BM calls. DH answered and it was SD. She "needed the phone tomorrow." I don't have a problem with her having it because that's why we bought it, but I can't help but get frustrated at BM's double standard "rules".