So a couple of weeks ago I posted that I had enough of the SD(31) and her antics for the last 22 years.  I have spent countless hours trying to show her that I simply love her and of course I was constantly the bad guy.  Well now aparently she is now telling DH that she is not going to have contact with him or let him have contact with his granddaughter because of me.  I did the disengagement and I blocked them from EVERYTHING. facebook, my phone.