SS18 who drives himself to school and has been late 3 times in 2.5 weeks. H asked me if I wanted to go out of town with him Thursday and come back Friday. I told him flat out that I would be worried sick leaving my pets and home in the care of his two kids! I mean, really, his son can't even get to school on time when one of us is home. His reply "he is about to start rding the bus!" My reply..yeah yeah yeah! What a joke. He never follows through on any kind of discipline. If they are grounded its for no more than a day! What a joke! I'm still laughing on that one!

SD17 finally came home yesterday and I asked her if we were going to keep ignoring each other and she said yes. So, with that being said, I told H that I'm done. Of course, he argued with her about the whole situation and she told him that she will speak and be cordial but I am not her mother. First of all I don't want to be, never have and as far as I am concerned she doesn't have to do me any favors. I don't care if she speaks or not. I told H to keep her away from me and I'll stay away from her.

After the talk that my H and I had last night in which he told me I needed to just act like everything is ok with SD and be normal it just once again reinforces the fact that he does me like he does it all! His view is ignore it and it will either go away or work itself out. She doesn't come on weekend nights and he has to find out the next day where she slept, when she does come home its only for money and I've been ignored and treated like basic crap for over two months and he expects me to act like everything is good. He says she is bitter...She is bitter?