Hi All. I've been following for quite some time and have considered this site a refuge for when I'm looking for guidance/inspiration in my own step situation. Almost four years ago I became involved with a man with a very young daughter. He was legally separated (she had an affair with her co-worker) but not yet divorced, and living with a friend. Because I've never had a relationship with anyone with a child or anyone who has been married, I asked to see the separation papers to verify the story. After almost a year of dating, my SO moved into my condo.