4 more days and I am at my 1 year anniversary of walking out on my hubby. I've been reflecting a lot lately about what the net chapter in my life should be.

Do you date? How long after the split did you start?

I looked at a lot of factors in my recent life and decided dating is not for me at this time. Which leads to the next question, what about sex? Is a FWB relationship ok providing that both parties set ground rules and expectations before a physical relationship starts?

My marriage was sexless for the last 12 years. We were sexless when we married and it stayed that way. I lost all feeling "that way" towards him when I realized he was spineless. It turned me off physically. BUT our marriage was very codependent. I grew balls, he never did. I left and never looked back.

NOW I find that my sex drive has gone through the roof! And I am in a FWB relationship. He is totally the wrong guy for me. I keep him a secret from everyone but my mother. But when I am around him I have full on animal instincts and there is nothing that will stop me from jumping his bones. I don't love him. I like him as a friend and when we see each other in public we are appropriate at all times. We text and talk a lot as friends but the bedroom is another matter. And he leaves. Without mucking up my life and home.

So Ladies and Gents who are single, how is your dating life?

Sorry for the rambling, I was wanting to post this for a while.