So here's my rant of the day. At the beginning of the summer, DH gave BM his work schedule up until December along with a list of days we can take SD. Fine. She said that makes things a lot easier for her. Ever since then, she has asked EVERY WEEK what days he has off, and keeps trying to pawn her child on us on days when DH works. DH has since then sent her two more copies of his schedule. She continues to ask, and bitch that he can't take her. She called me out once (through a text to him, I don't communicate with her ever) saying I need to step up to my duty as a care giver of SD because most of the time I say no to taking SD if DH has to work. They aren't even court ordered days, she's just looking for free babysitting from me since I am on mat leave and she seems to have this picture in her head of me sitting at home 24/7 doing nothing. DH always stands by me so my complaint doesn't lie with him, he is usually a very good buffer between BM and me. My complaint is this...why in God's name do you continue to make our lives difficult by harassing us when you KNOW we can't take SD??! You have FOUR DAMN COPIES of DH's schedule. She seriously has nothing better to do. And I am going to have to deal with this craziness for 13 more years...le sigh.