First of all thank you all for your support and comments. They have all been a great piece of mind, knowing that you are out there and you do understand. So thank you a million times over.
Also we did go to court today and she was 15 min. late. They were just about to let us start without her and she and her less than moral, good for nothing mother showed up looking like and smelling like they just came from the "Best Lil Whore House in Texas". Thats putting it nicely.
We stated our case and she stood up for her turn and LIED right out lied. My jaw dropped to the floor, honestly. She was under oath and lied. However we got legal custody and the SDs can only visit if the new boy toy is not around. We could have very easily gone for no custody but we do think that the girls do need to see BM. (hopefully they will see her for who she really is as they get older)
All the same it is going to be the biggest challange ever to get through this in one piece. I love my husband for than life itself and we do belong together, he is my soul mate and loves me, but I just dont know if I will be able to do it.