Last night, DFH called to talk to the kids, as he does every night they are not with us. The kids offered up that they were out of town. So, when BM got back on the phone DFH asked her where they were. She said they were in "X-town" and if there was anything else he needed to discuss with her. She completely blew him off and was not going to tell him except that the kids had mentioned it. She did say that they were down there with her new boyfriends family. She freaked out when the kids met my family and would absolutely have a meltdown if we took the kids 3 hours away without telling her. It is in the decree that they can not take the kids out of the state without eachothers permission, but she went right up to the border and did not mention anything! Its not a surprise that she gives us a hardtime, but does exactly whatever the hell she likes with no consideration to us, but it is so freakin frustrating. Every step we make, we take her into consideration and approach it with the least amount of trauma for her, so we dont have to deal with anything crazy. And yet, she still slings it our way! Ugh, crazy! !