My husband has two children, (boy 12, girl 9). We have been married since February. Now I am two months pregnant. My husband and his ex share the custody so the kids stay 2-5 days per week. Every time when they came over, I get a tight stomach and feeling upset. I am not close to them and I feel I am losing my space. I tried to fix dinner for them and this is pretty much about it. Nothing else in common. His children annoy me, they are loud and lack of discipline. I am counting the day they are leaving for college. I try to see the psychology abut didn’t help much.