SD16 is one of those kids that shouldn't have a cell phone. Nearly all her bad behaviour in the last 2 years, that damn phone has been part of it somehow. Between sending naked pictures of herself and chatting with 24 year old men, I am ready to take a sledge hammer to it.

BM bought the phone for her, takes it away for a day or two when she's in trouble but she always gets it back. BM insists on 'constant contact' with princess when she's on her visitation weekends. She'll go 2 weeks without talking to her dad but can't go 2 hours without texting her mom. But I digress...

DH was in SD16's town visiting some friends and BM ok'd a couple-hour visit. Once again, DH begged SD to get her shit together, go to school, stop sleeping around, stop lipping off. DH told me that she said she was trying her best and 'no one ever believes her'. Well, DUH! Everything that's come out of your mouth in the last 2 years has been a lie. She assured DH that she had learned her lesson and she will prove that we will be able to trust her.

Today we get a call from BM. SD was caught with her cell in her room after she said she was going to bed. (one of the few rules enforced at BM's house) She went through the phone and found she was had downloaded several chat programs (another big no-no).

So SD...you promise your dad you have learned your lesson, complain that no one trusts you, promise that you are not doing anything you're not suppose to and less than 7 hours later get caught doing the very thing you promised you weren't doing anymore. Your idiocy knows no bounds.