I forgot my password but somehow I got into my old account but here goes. It has been two years since I've had to get on here and vent. Ss stopped coming around after I had the baby. His mom blames me somehow because of it. She was sending him here in the same clothes he'd had on for weeks. He was covered in dog hair and smelled. He was being dropped off at all hours and days. Imagine 12:30 at night. I was about to have our baby. We talked to him numerous times about boundaries. It did no good. I found out all of this was being done for spite. He ended up hating the baby and tried to scare him. So two years later they still live right above our house. Supposedly they're being made to move. But on our end I am very close to getting some money from a settlement. I put my husband as part of it called loss of consortium. He's getting a small amount. The lawyers lied to me and said it would be divided. It was not but my main concern is if the ex and ss hear we have money he's gonna try to weasel his way back in. Hubby says it's not happening. He's hurt bc he dropped him, won't reply to his texts, and won't even open them up. I want to move. I'm having trouble finding an affordable place to buy with the amount of money I'm getting. I've told my hubby that I will not put up with them coming back around pulling in at any time day or night. When my fil passed ss never came to the wake, funeral, not contacted my husband. He's deeply hurt but I know he loves his son. I am terrified of this mess starting again before we can get moved out and away from here or they move. I noticed someone waving from their vehicle as they went by today. I know how the bm is. She's gonna think she's entitled to some cash. She's the lowest type of person there is. I'm sure that ss is just like her by now. He only wanted to come around before when my husband had money for a pizza and or we had wifi. I just had to vent because I'm in a panic over them finding out. He says he's gonna tell him he made his bed but after all. He's only 12-13. If my dh wants to be in his life as cruel as I may sound I'm gone. I'm not putting my toddler at risk so he can lay on his a$$ and use us. Thanks for reading my story. Please don't judge. I've tried to love this kid. Tried to be good to him. Then I saw how he truly was. He was so disrespectful and entitled and I can't have that around my two year old. Not to mention all the aggravation of seeing his mom drop him out without asking could he stay. I'm gonna stop here lol. I've just been through so much with them I could write a book.