Well im in need of a lil advice. for ss11 bday we got him a prepaid cell phone bc his 11 yr old sister has one and he really wanted one. But we made him sign a contract stating that he had to do chorus to keep it as well as ohter things like his attitude and behavior. So DF and I are having a hard time coming to an agreement on what he should have to do.

So today i go to pick up my SS4 from daycare and as were driving to get SS10 FROM school were talking like we always do about school,and things and out fo no where he yells at me "my mom doesnt like you, and my mon doesnt like my dad", so im speechless bc well i know she hates me and the feeling is very mutual but when its yelled to me from my 4 yr old SS its a lil shocking.

Well its wednesday and were suspossed to have the boys but guess what? there not at school, which is where we are suspossed to pick them up from so we dont have to deal with BM. So anyway DF called BM and she didnt answer, shocker there!

Well we were very excited to go see SS4 play his first soccer game, but on our way there we got a call form the head coach (DF had called to check on the game earlier in the day bc even thou BM is assistant coach she doesnt tell us when things change, we have also missed 2 of SS10 games for this reason) letting us know that the game had been switched to yesterday, so again we miss out.