ok, so I was dreading the graduation tomorrow night and lo and behold BM saves the day by posting a blog that she is afraid of my H and what he is going to do to her tomorrow. Now my H can be annoying at times, but he doesn't have an abusive I'll hit a woman bone in his pudgy sexy body.

So I shared the blog with my H and he said you know what...I'm not going. I'm so done with them.

Okay some background info. SD18 is not H's bio kid but he has been her father figure since she was 3 months old. He looks at her as his kid. But at 15 she decides she hates me and leaves our house. So she comes back and leaves the final time two years ago in July 07. H told her I'm not letting you come back. You're on your own. Shortly after that SD16 who is H's biochild moves out although she is warned, you can't come back.

BM is elated as she was having to pay CS to us of $600 per month for 3 kids, only one of whom we are legally responsible for!!!! So the agreement was we'll keep SD14 and the other two have chosen you. BM said....I'll take care of these two and you take care of SD14. We agree.

Fast forward over two years and BM hasn't taken care of SD's 18 and 16. They essentially live with men, still wear clothes I bought them over 3 years ago. It is very sad. Ok, so SD18 texted me three nights ago and said BM's sugardaddy in England is giving SD18 a trip to Peru as a graduation gift. This same sugardaddy pays for BM to travel the globe during the summer. I replied that was great and to have fun. I also asked her what were her plans for college...no response.

She made the unfortunate mistake of texting H yesterday very excited about Peru and H told her this reminded him of her mother and she shouldn't take or expect gifts from men; instead she should save her money and pay her own way. He also told her she should ask sugardaddy to pay the $6000 to a junior college which would allow her to get an associates degree and pay for her books even.

SD18 responded that he should be happy for her and going to Peru is a great opportunity, yada yada yada. H told her to please refrain from sharing plans about such instant gratification when she should be focusing on college.

Fast forward to last night and BM posts a blog that she is deathly afraid of my husband and rallied for all her friends to come to the graduation and protect her from my husband. Geez louise!

So when I showed the blog to my H he was like...they are so stupid. I don't want to go. I then switched and convinced him to go, but he doesn't want to go. I told him we should go and we'll just grin and bear it.

So thanks to BM for making me laugh and I am looking so forward to her performance tomorrow. She's such a melodramatic nutzzo.

Question now is whether we take SD14 to graduation in light of BM waiting to start some sh*t....your opinion?????

Thanks,

Evilest Diva