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Submitted by Emerald on Sat, 04/21/2012 - 11:54pm

I'm writing this to you here because I would never be able to send this to you in person. First off because you are so dumb you wouldn't understand it second off because you would show the children and I honestly feel they don't need to know what a low down dirty bitch you are. Just so you know it does not in fact hurt me in the least bit when you say "YOU ARE NOT THEIR MOTHER" trust me I know this and I thank god every day I am NOT you. I am however their stepmother and I will not stop being so no matter how much crap you want to dump on me.

FED UP!!

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Submitted by Emerald on Thu, 04/05/2012 - 2:25am

Why is it that BM's husband is "step-dad" and i'm when the skid's are talking to other people about me. Example my SD10 was talking to her step-cousin about our religious beliefs saying "i'm (insert religion here) and so is my mom and so is , my Step-dad is (insert religion here) and my dad is (insert religion here).

So now I'm the bitch!!! HELP pulling out my hair!!!

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Submitted by Emerald on Sat, 01/07/2012 - 12:44am

Because I started disengaging i'm now being accused of being a bitch to his children. WTF??? I don't say SHIT to them unless they ask me something, then I either reply with whatever is called for with the question or I simply say "ask your dad" how the F%^& does that make me a bitch?!?!?!?! Was it this hard with your DH's when you all started to disengage?

What do you think?

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Submitted by Emerald on Thu, 01/05/2012 - 8:13pm

I am tired of getting my heart broken on an hourly basis with these fkn skids. I'm not going to be a step anymore. I am not only just going to disengage, I quit!!! no more reminding DH to call them, no more making sure they have any food etc when they are here Dad can. I will just do my thing when they are here visiting Dad and I will not let him leave me alone with them ever again!!!!! Now, any suggestions on how to make this transaction smooth for all?

Yeah I want her to stay here with me... NOT!!!

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Submitted by Emerald on Thu, 01/05/2012 - 6:39pm

So DH and SS14 are going to take his RC car and play with it and DH says well SD10 can just stay here with you. HELL NO she cant. Why would I want this lying little demon to stay here all alone with me. Why??? so she can make up more bullshit to tell BM. No way in hell am I spending one second alone in a room with her let alone let him leave her with me because he doesn't want to deal with her? I say after seven years of abuse from BM and skids I'm done. Take your hell spawn with you and leave me out of this twisted evil bitches mind games between you and your kids!!!

And the cycle goes on and on and on.....

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Submitted by Emerald on Wed, 01/04/2012 - 9:52pm

ok so several years ago when I first got involved in skids lives SD was too young for any brain washing but SS was ripe for BM's picking, and poison his mind she did. But now that he is older he see's the bullshit to a point, he still likes to get in the drama with BM but it's not as bad as it was with him, now on to SD10. I got to her Facebook page because she left it logged in when I was going to check something and I saw the conversation she was having with BM about how mean I am and how I have been doing nothing but yell at her non stop since they got here on the 31st.

WTF?!?!?!?!?

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Submitted by Emerald on Mon, 01/02/2012 - 1:54am

OK so skids come for their visit, we pick them up at the airport, go to baggage claim to get their suitcases, they are staying 2 weeks, and SD10 has a freaking backpack!!!!! that's it!!!!??? Then we get home come to find out she packed ALL BY HERSELF?!?!?! again WTF??? she is 10!!!!! I ask do you have PJ's? No.. Do you have warm clothes? No! No shampoo etc... I bite me lip walk away! I AM NOT BUYING ANY CLOTHES!!!! The court order says they must come with what they need for their trip!!! Because we pay for 1/2 of all their clothes that stay at BM's house. I'm so pissed!!!

Anyone else face this issue?

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Submitted by Emerald on Wed, 12/21/2011 - 12:18am

So we have to fight tooth and nail to get BM to give us our Thanksgiving or Christmas but when it comes to New Years Eve and BM and her husband want to go party they want to dump the kids on us. Doesn't matter if it's our year or not. Cuz they party!!! They party hard!!!
So we seem to cave in and take them because
A. BM makes DH feel bad. and
B. We don't want them out drinking and driving with the skids in the damn car.
Believe me I have smelled booze on setpdads breath on more than one occasion.

First attempt to disengage myself...

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Submitted by Emerald on Tue, 12/20/2011 - 6:45pm

OK so on Sunday my DH was at our business where we have some stuff in storage and was supposed to meet my nephew there to pick up SS14's mattress and box spring that DH previously forgot to have the movers move to our house. Well again he forgot to get it, when he got home I asked him why he didn't wait and he starts to yell at me and say "I don't know why it just didn't get moved here when the movers were there" so I said "Because YOU didn't have them move it, then I added well YOUR son will be here on the 31st and I honestly don't care if he has a bed to sleep on or not.

WOW

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Submitted by Emerald on Mon, 12/19/2011 - 11:30pm

Some people on here are sure full of themselves. Kinda makes me wonder if they are impostors posing as setps but really BM's just here to cause more shit. to them I say go get your own forum and leave us alone before we start teaching your children bad things lol

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