Back story: My husband has 3 other children from 2 other relationships.
Apparently before me, he had no sense. Both of the other parents of his children, are still dependent on their parents to take care of them, yes the other parent. The two adult children of his first marriage, still live with other parent, who lives at her parents.
The second relationship, 3rd child. No better home situation. Mom lives on property of her mom, in trailer bought by her mother. Their son lives mostly with his grandparents.
Okay, so now that, that is out of the way.
Last year his 13 year old son. Who has always stolen little items from our son. Mostly chalked up.. to jealously. Also treats our son horribly. If I turn my head for just a minute he will punch him in the stomach, or try to get him to do something bad. My son hates him. Last year at 13, he came up from KY (we are in OH) spent a week with his aunt (mothers side) then to our house 1/2 summer. Started off normal. Boys fighting. Him stealing stuff. Our sons cell phone came up missing. We knew who had it.
Ask him
Haven't seen it
He was outside pouting about something. Told our son to go search his room. Found his phone...his bb gun, and POT.
Our son comes running down the stairs, screaming about drugs. I, who would usually jump the rocker about it, thought, he probably just stole some tobacco, and its in there...nope POT
So he claims to be holding it for his cousin (moms side) who has been in trouble with that stuff before. Only ever tried it once, blah blah blah.
Lied about everything
Bought it
Smoked it all
Big uproar by me. Dad disappointed, mom does it too. So no punishment.
He hadn't been back since.
Coming this summer (in weeks)
Going to aunts first. Then here.
What do I do?
My son WILL NOT BE subjected to drugs. Under any circumstances.
He isn't someone I want my child around, in life, much less sleeping in the next bedroom.
Don't trust him...
Advice