Hello step talk! I am excited to be joining the group! I daily read the post on this page and I finally decided to post. So a little about me.... Have an awesome boyfriend that treats me very well... He has one daughter that is 10... He has 50/50 custody... Here is the issue.. I have no kids just a dog that I absolutely adore. We have been together for 5 years and we have combined our finances. I have no issue helping him pay for things for his daughter ... My issue comes when I feel as the financial obligations reside with me and not her mother...