SD22 is pregnant again!
Just when some relief was in sight - we've had SD25's 2 kids living with us since last August, and they are supposed to start living at their father's 5 days a week over the summer - I get hit with this news. SD22 is jobless, penniless, has a 2-year-old from a different father, and still can't even take care of herself, much less her son, and now another on the way. At least DW is as disgusted with her as I am. Since SD22 had her first baby before I discovered this site, you all were spared the awful details and the drama she brought into our lives leading up to having her first baby. I just can't believe she would let this happen again. Well, yes I can, knowing how she operates.
It's as if my 2 SDs are in competition with each other to see who can mess up their life more, and cause DW and I more grief.
What was the recent topic about "knowing what you were getting into" when you got married? No, I never could have foreseen all of this.
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Adoption is a really good
Adoption is a really good option!
aye!
aye!
I agree, but it ain't gonna
I agree, but it ain't gonna happen. Part of the drama of her first baby was that she was going to put it up for adoption... until about 5 months into her pregnancy, when she decided she couldn't do it.
This is my life ^^^ SD20 2
This is my life ^^^ SD20 2 kids 3 and 10 months, she's lazy and doesn't help with shit, kids crying all the time and she doesn't help AT aLL. Me and DH fight all the time. the house is never quiet and we get asked to babysit even though the kids live there. If I thought this was gonna be my life I woulda said Hell to the NO!
Well fortunately, SD22 is not
Well fortunately, SD22 is not living with us. SD25 did live with us, with her 2 kids, from last August until this January, when DW kicked her out (but not the grandkids, who SD25 was not taking care of anyway).
And when DW told me about this pregnancy, she assured me that neither of her daughters is welcome to come live in our house again. She finally gets it that it is no good for anyone to have them live with us. By now, DW is almost as sick of what her daughters have done to their lives as I am. For her now, it's all about making sure the grandchildren are taken care of.
"won't work, mooches, lies
"won't work, mooches, lies and uses people" - oh, so you know my SD22?
I am fortunate that DW has seen the light, and no, we will not be taking in any more grandchildren. In fact, she is making every effort to have the 2 currently living with us spend the majority of their time at their father's over the summer, and hopefully beyond that. She is also working with SD25 to try to get her to a place where she wants to be a mother to her own children again, but I'm not holding my breath on that one. Most importantly, DW assures me that neither SD is ever welcome to live in our house again.