Me and my DH have been together for many years. My DH has a BD the same age as my BD. My SD7 and BD7 have never really gotten along but tolerated each other but now that they are at this age they just constantly fight and argue. SD7 is very sneaky and lies a lot. Which we have both caught her in many of them. Let me also tell you that we have custody of SD7. We have gotten into many of arguments because of her (more of DH yelling at me for SD losing things and ect.). I love my SD and want nothing but the best for her. I just wish SD could stay with her BM.