This is my first post. I have been married for ten years and have four adult stepdaugters. My husband was married for 28 years to his ex wife and the marriage ended two years before he met me (so I did not break up the marriage). My stepdaughters are now 37, 35, 30 and 27 and act more like two year olds. They are spoiled brats to say the least. Their mother has not remarried (or dated, for that matter - after all, who would date a nasty, bitter, mean person?) and they blame their father (my husband) for her unhappiness. It has become unbearable in dealing with them.