Hi. I am a divorced mother of 3 (son-19 lives with his dad; daughter-16 lives 50/50; daughter-8 lives w/ me and has bi-weekly visitation with her dad). I waited 2.5 years from my split with my ex to decide I was ready to date again. I met a wonderful man who was freshly separated and going through a divorce. We ended up moving in together rather fast, which in hind sight might not have been the best idea, but here we are and I need to find a way to make it work. My boyfriend has two sons (15 & 12). The 15 year old won't speak with his dad, the 12 year old we have 50% of the time.