SD11 is here for pretty much the whole summer. Her mom is the only one who truly puts her kid first and does not cause drama. She is an amazing women and mother.

Anyways while having to deal with BM#4 and her issues today, I have began to clean and clean. SD11 is sitting at the table writing a song and asks me " Are you so upset that you feel you have to clean everyting" Made me laugh. She knows that something is on my mind and making me not myself but I don't feel the need to involve her in ADULT issues. All she knows is that BM#4 is not getting along with Dad right now and that's why SD3 is not here. She knows that we are doing everything we can to get her to see her sister as SD3 and SD11 are super close, I mean crazy close. It's HER sister if you ask SD3. She is like a little mommy to her. It's cute, but really hard when SD11 is the peace keeper of the four kids and she is not able to "help" keep the peace. She often times will say things that are so cute like "what if we offer BM this or that or what if we do this" She knows all about BM as she was around when SO was with her and knows her crazy behaviors. She can't stand her either. She always says "no affence but I wouldn't want to see her either, she creeps me out and I bet I am not the only one" What do you say to that. "hey kid you are spot on" She is entitled to make her own opinions and it has nothing to do what the things we say or how we feel about BM. BM used to try and hug the other SD's and they would be all weirded out. SO finally told them they don't have to be in the room when she showed up and don't have to talk to her if they are uncomfortable. She is just plain weird.

So yes I am just frustrated and angery so ... I clean, I don't say anything I just go crazy cleaning. By now you would think my house is Spotless by all the crazyness in my life due to these BM but with recently comblining two homes we have a lot that needs to get organized and tossed and with 6 people living here and every one has to change closes twice a day it seems and has bath towels and pool towels (we have a indoor and out door pool) The laundry piles up and laundry is not one thing I have ever been good at keeping up with. Thought about packing everything up and getting caught up at the laundry mat as it will take days just to do the towels we have. LOL