SO has had his attorney draw up contempt charges on bm but the attorney won't file them until he is all paid up in fees. Since then bm has denied visitation again and did only five SD3 to him after he called the cops. Also she took her out of her old daycare because she said it was going to be closer to her new apartment and this daycare required SD to be there 42 hrs a week because bm is on state assistance and any hours less she has to pay the difference trying to limit SO time with SD. Only to find out she lied to him and moved right across from her old daycare and has yet to tell SO she moved against the court order as well. My question is do we wait and let her continue to get more contempt charges piling up and pay the lawyer off slowly or file the charges on our own or find the money and get the lawyer to do it ASAP?