Ok, so let me first intro my situation here. I am married now to the one woman I have loved for many years. The problem is, that since her and I broke up originally, some 17 years ago, we both were married and had 2 daughters. So now, we are together again and we had a baby together almost 2 years ago. That makes 5 girls between the 2 of us. SD 15, BD 12, BD 8, SD 5, and BD 21 mos. SO obviously, my hands are FULL. My BDs live with my exwife and I have them every other weekend, and holidays and split vacations and such. MY SDs live with us full time. Things started off pretty good.