This is the question I keep asking myself. It has basically come down to that I should trust my man that he is doing the right thing as far as our relationship and the kids. I do believe he is a good man but not perfect, and neither am I. When we fight his solution is to separate, I always want to compromise and work it out. So is it true that sometimes it is just not a good fit ? I believe that anything can be worked out as long as you both put forth the effort.