My wife and I have been married for 9 years. We both had kids prior with mine being 12 (Girl) & 15 (Boy). Her two are 20 (Girl) & 21 (Boy). The MAJOR problem is my step son who is 20 years old. He only works 15-20 hours per week at a restaurant and will not look for any other type of employment at all. He dropped out of school at 17 years old because he said he wanted to nothing but work for a living and as you can see that’s not really happening. He does absolutely NOTHING around the house at all.