So I was in SDs bathroom today, because family is visiting and I put up some towels for them. Noticed SD9 towel bar was half loose. Go to take a look and it's actually partly yanked off wall. This was just put in, by me with SD9 help and I advised her to be careful and not yank her towels or hang herself off the bar, in June.

I simply tell DP I am removing the towel bar as I will not be fixing it any longer (SDs have a history of yanking the things out of the wall). He says, "Well, in her defense towel bars are hard to use. It's hard to get the dammed towel over the bar."" I say, "no, they aren't. I know you have trouble with both bars and hooks but they really not hard." (DP consistently just shoves towels on top of bars, drapes them in the shower stall or I find them on the floor, less often that now, or on a chair. He has a bar AND a hook!).

I walk away, put up a simple hook, notice SD9s other hook is loose, shrug. If anything else is yanked off wall I'll fix the hole but no more hooks or bars. She can leave towels on floor or DP can handle it.