Doll Chronicles
So SD9s friend (TF) had a sleepover at BMs this weekend. My good friend is TFs mom.
We had a little chat yesterday because she wanted me to know what happened. Apparently the SDs got in a huge, huge fight which disturbed TF.
Here's what happened: SD12 sold SD9s American Girl doll. SD9 couldn't find it, found out it was gone. Fight. SD12 then agreed to give SD9 her (no longer used) AG doll. All good. Then Sunday morning SD12 wants the doll back. SD9 refuses and all hell breaks loose. Apparently BM knew nothing about any of this until Sunday.
My friend told me, according to TF (who is a very good observer and smart but I take this with a tiny grain of salt even though it's completely a normal reaction from BM) BM does nothing to stop the arguing even though SD12 reverted to pretty bad name calling and TF was really scared/freaked out. BM says something about finding the doll and try to get it back. SD12 gets out of it! Again! Holy F!
I'd be livid! It's all about SD12s total greed (I'll bet money I know what she spent the cash on) and total lack of respect for others things. She'd be grounded so fast she wouldn't know what happened, she'd be required to give SD9 her doll. In reality? No punishment! My friend was shocked...
I am sure this will spill over into our house this weekend. DP wanted the dolls and clothing back to our house this weekend since he bought ALL of it (yeah but I wasn't holding by breath for that either since he wouldn't follow up anyway). I haven't said a word about it. A couple weeks ago I would have. Now it's blissfully Not My Problem. I'll just watch the insanity unfold....
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I know! Talked with DP many
I know! Talked with DP many times about her new pre-teen attitude change (can you say entitled 50x?)...and now I'm done. She has got nothing from me for over a week now and I'm just watching all this stuff happen and she still has not once received any punishment. So I disengaged.
She lives in a large townhome
She lives in a large townhome community with lots of kids, so I'm guessing she made a side deal with someone...I think this all went down at BMs.
She is MORE than a brat at this point, as I told DP last week, "SD12 is turning into a royal beyotch if you aren't careful and I'll have nothing to do with it."
Good correction. No, SD9, 10
Good correction.
No, SD9, 10 in one month, is pretty good. She like things organized and neat and I rarely find her things scattered around. She learned quickly to pick stuff up or lose it. She's getting some attitude but not nearly like SD12 did at 10. My disengagement from her is more focused on DP, and getting him to make sure she's more independent...
Well, not a word was said
Well, not a word was said about the dolls it seems like.
I came home and all was calm.
So I would say that DP doesn't know about it and SD12 gets away with sh*t again.
I wonder how long it'll take DP to realize I'm avoiding being home on Thursday evenings...haven't done so since right before the holidays....
SD12 doesn't want to move to BMs! Because she and BM constantly conflict and BM just rolls over...with DP there's not any conflict at all. Plus she has a teeny-tiny closet room (literally her room there is a tiny "office" space, only room for a single bed and chair, her dresser is in the hallway). She's got the bigger room at our house, unmonitored wifi access! Why in the world would she go to BMs? She's got it made with DP!
Oh, and trust me, a bunch of SD12's stuff that's in the garage is going away on Saturday while she's being taken to a movie by DP.
There's no issue according to DP, she's just a kid. She's still learning. You know, he supports her unconditionally because she's had a hard time due to the divorce...so DP will not kick her out. So he gets to take over everything for her. EVERYTHING.