So DH had his daughter today for a couple hours - her mother came to pick up CS and brought DH's kid with her. Anyway, while she was with us, she told her father that BM told her that DH was dead.

I had to laugh - wishful thinking huh BM. It's funny because the bitch doesn't have a job and if the kid wants anything it's up to DH to get it for her. One time when the kid was younger she got sick. He had already given her money before that but she wanted more (because of the kid being sick). She was calling but couldn't get to him (he was at work) so she decided to leave a message bitching at him about not being there for the kid and that I'm keeping him away from her. Yeah right dumbass - I keep out of their dealings. Keep in mind that she ended up borrowing the extra money from DH's dad and she needed less than the equivalent of $5 US (we're Jamaican).
I was sitting there thinking that she must be stupid saying dumb shit like that. First of all, who says that to their child? Who wants to put a 4 year old through that? If anything happened to DH (God forbid) l wouldn't have to worry about having a roof over our heads or food to eat (our son and I). I don't know what she would do to provide for her household since she doesn't feel the need to get off her lazy ass and get a job.
I just find it funny that she would say that because she surely wouldn't like the reality of it.