never really thought about it but i will be a step mom when we marry. The only prob is that he isn't divorced........so here is the thing....he says he wants to be divorced and married her bc she had good P***** and she said so. So will he divorce her bc I said so? Maybe bc he thinks I have good P****? He is a truck driver, born and bred in the deep country. He is the all knowing of everything military, guns, tractors, helicopters, etc...but when asked to fill out paperwork, he is worthless. He does not understand and just does not do it....makes like it does not exist.