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Submitted by ChokinOnLemonz2015 on Thu, 10/08/2015 - 3:27pm

Haven't posted in ages. Probably only here today because someone got mixed with me or BMs got mixed. Some shit like that.

Forgot my password.

Things are ok at home. Some stressors with the school in regards to my special needs kids but working through it.

Nothing to say in regards to RiceSlinger. She's a non entity in my life for the most part. I refuse to engage with her.

I also refuse to engage with Judas. Zero contact. Total disengagement.I'm happy with it. My husband and I don't fight over him or waste our time talking about him anymore than I'd spend a day discussing anal warts and other unpleasantries

Kid doesn't have to look at, like, acknowledge me and I don't have to look at, like, or acknowledge him. May sound strange but it works.

I did try the whole being nice and trying to make small chat advice. Yeah... May as well stick your head in a tub full of Cobras and expect a happy ending, pretty much the same as thinking nice will get you anywhere with a brainwashed skid.

I have three children to raise and one girl skid that doesn't hate me. So I can be happy with that.

Gotta run. Real life and momming calls. Later!

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Submitted by ChokinOnLemonz2015 on Thu, 10/08/2015 - 3:41pm

Because she worked as a waitress at Asian restaurants. My brother in law used to always tell DH 'Tell that whore to go sling more rice' when DH would complain about her. One day he said that and I was reading The Gunslinger and ....

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Submitted by WTF...REALLY on Thu, 10/08/2015 - 3:57pm

Lol

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Submitted by ChokinOnLemonz2015 on Thu, 10/08/2015 - 6:07pm

No lol she could be whiter than snow or darker than coal and she'd still be RS after that day

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Submitted by ChokinOnLemonz2015 on Thu, 10/08/2015 - 4:01pm

Also for those that are mixing me up

DH had his 2 kids by RS for years before we met

I have 2 kids with special needs from previous marriage and 1 child with DH

Our dog ran away Sad

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Submitted by Monchichi on Fri, 10/09/2015 - 1:24am

I'm so glad you checked in Smile Even if it is another name! We miss hearing how it's going even if it's going well. If you've disengaged successfully, you should sneak in and give us encouragement Blum 3 We need to know it works!

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Submitted by ChokinOnLemonz2015 on Fri, 10/09/2015 - 9:24am

Honestly, my absence from here was a part of disengagement. Because it won't work if you have any part of your heart or mind still dwelling on the skid. And being here made it hard for me to get into that head space, if you know what I mean.